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LaDawn's Quickie Love Advice:
QUESTION: I am in a lesbian relationship with this girl who constantly is talking about who she wants to have sex with or who she likes. So far I have been ignoring it, but it has really started to bother me. I was wondering: Should I say something or just continue to ignore it?
Say something! It is making you uncomfortable, and it deserves to stop or be modified. Look. Some people are just open about who they are attracted to and what they would do if given the opportunity, but it is just banter. If she loves you, she will slow it down and be more respectful of your feelings. You need to talk to your girl to find out whether it is meaningless banter or a sign that she is ready to find someone new. My guess is that it is banter, because often cheaters like to do their dirt in the dark and they would never ever tell you who is on their hit list.
QUESTION: I just had our son 7 months ago and I still don’t think that I am back to my sexy self. I mean we have had sex since, but it is not the same. It is like, not the way I want it to be. I think it is because of our son that I don’t even want to have sex anymore. Deep down I want it but it is hard. What can I do to make it better?
This is the little secret that doctors and pregnancy books do not always tell women. It definitely takes longer than six weeks to get back to your old sexy self. In most cases it is small victories over a few years to get the body, new roles and inner sex kitten where it all needs to be. My biggest piece of advice is to give yourself time and be patient. Sex has a new depth once you are a mom. You see what it yields and often the emotional aspect of it is heightened. Also physically it is hard to feel hot sometimes in a new body that may be back to its old shape but still may feel foreign because of stretching or the demands of breastfeeding. The way to get the sex kitty back is to plan time with your lover without the baby, have pamper days, add videos or a sexy read to your foreplay or have an all about me night where you challenge your lover to please you in new and exotic ways (tongue only, no hands, blindfold body discovery etc.) Patience and a spirit to discover new treats will get you where you want to be.
